When someone decides to commit adultery they think that they are not going to be caught.
But in many cases they are caught and when that happens it destroys life.
Adultery is the worst thing that can ruin a marriage.
Here is how adultery can destroy your life and marriage.
1. Loss Of Trust
Once you are unfaithful to your partner it’s difficult to gain the trust you once had.
Trust once lost will take time even years to regain sometimes one can never fully trust you once you commit adultery.
2. Loss Of Respect
Everyone wants to be respected even a child wants to be respected.
But of course respect has to earned noone respects someone whom they see doing shameful things.
It hard to manage your life and marriage when you don’t have respect from people around you.
3. Loss Of People Around You
Adultery can make you lose your friends and your loved ones, you lose the trust and respect and suddenly noone once to be around you.
4. Stress In Your Life
The modern life we live has already things that cause stress in our daily lives, why add more stress into your life by committing adultery?
You will never have peace once you start this game of cheating your partner.
Every time you are always worrying about being caught cheating and when you are actually caught you start to worry about losing your partner and kids.
5. Suffering To Your Loved Ones
No child wants a cheating father or mother just imagine the pain and suffering you would be causing to your children when you are committing adultery.
6. Marriage Breakdown
Adultery is one of the biggest causes of marriage breakdown.
When someone cheats in a marriage it can trigger many things such as more fights and violence.
At times councilling might help but once an egg has a crack it’s difficult to glue it back.
7. Risk Of Being Dishonoured
If you are cheating on your partner you risk being dishonoured as a parent by your children.
Children have their feelings and thoughts they tend to sympathise with the other parent who is not cheating.
By committing adultery remember that there is a chance that you might lose your children forever.
8. Healthy Problems.
The stress you will have during adultery and after being caught can overwhelm you such that it can trigger other heathy problems.
9. Unexpected Pregnancy/ Child
Every year there are many unwanted pregnancies that come from adultery.
Every child yearns to be raised by two parents having an affair can result in a child being raised with a single parent.
Sadly in some cases, adultery can result in death, people will be ashamed to continue with their lives and will chose a darker road by ending their life.
It’s important to seek help when you reach this stage of wanting to end your life.
Over to you…
Do you know someone who is having an affair?
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